Question 1

My son is 4 and yells during hair washing. What can I do?

Accepted Answer

Most children hate water in their eyes and on their face. Tilt his head back and rinse from the forehead backward with a cup, and let him hold a dry washcloth over his eyes. Hair doesn’t need washing at every bath.

Question 2

My 2-year-old screams when she sees the drain. Why?

Accepted Answer

Toddlers don’t yet understand size and proportion, so she may truly fear being pulled down the drain with the water. Pull the plug only after she is out of the tub, and show her that even her rubber duck can’t fit. This fear usually fades within a few weeks.

Question 3

Is it normal to feel guilty when my child cries because the tablet is gone?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Crying and protest in the first days are expected and usually short-lived. The calmer and more consistent you are, the faster the new routine sticks, and one small meal is not a failure.

Question 4

Grandma turns on cartoons at lunch when she babysits. How do I handle it?

Accepted Answer

Explain the reason without blame: with the TV on, children don’t notice when they’re full. Offer a simple table game or song she can use instead. Even if rules differ between homes, staying consistent at your own table still makes a difference.

Question 5

Should I take the screen away all at once or gradually?

Accepted Answer

Both can work, as long as every adult at home follows the same rule. The Dutch Nutrition Centre suggests first swapping the screen for a food-themed word game or a small book. Tell your child the new plan ahead of time, in one short sentence.

Question 6

My daughter is 4 and can’t sit through dinner for five minutes. What should I do?

Accepted Answer

Start with a short, realistic meal and calmly say the meal is over when she gets up. A small job, like handing out napkins or tossing the salad, gives her a reason to stay. Most children sit longer after a few weeks of calm consistency.

Question 7

My 2-year-old won’t take a single bite without the iPad. Will he go hungry?

Accepted Answer

A healthy toddler who eats little at one meal usually makes up for it at the next. Skipping grazing and milk between meals helps him come to the table hungry. If you notice weight loss or low energy, check in with your pediatrician.

Question 8

When does separation anxiety go away?

Accepted Answer

For most children it eases after age 2 and is rare on a daily basis after the preschool years. It can return for a while during illness, a move or a new sibling. If it still disrupts daily life after age 6, talk to your pediatrician.

Question 9

My child doesn’t cry when my partner drops them off, only with me. Why?

Accepted Answer

Children often show their biggest feelings to the person they trust most. If both parents use the same goodbye routine, your child knows what to expect and adapts faster. For a while, the parent with the easier goodbye can do drop-off while you do pick-up.

Question 10

I feel guilty and heartbroken when my child cries. Is that normal?

Accepted Answer

Completely normal, and your child’s tears are a sign of a strong bond, not a sign you are doing something wrong. Try not to bring your worry into the goodbye; a calm voice and a quick farewell help you both. Talking about your feelings with a partner or friend can help as well.

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